Crime & Safety

Husband of Slain Officer Had Been Stalking Her for Days Before Shooting: Complaint

Benjamin Sebena, the Menomonee Falls man charged with killing his wife, a Wauwatosa police officer, admitted to police that he waited in hiding for her near the city's fire station for hours, and shot her when she left the building after taking a b

After initially telling police he was at home at the time his wife was murdered, Benjamin Sebena ultimately admitted he had stalked her for several days before killing her on Christmas Eve, court documents show.

Sebenawas charged Thursday with first-degree intentional homicide in the shooting death of his wife, Wauwatosa police officer Jennifer Sebena, while she was on duty.

The couple lived on Ranch Road in Menomonee Falls.

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Benjamin Sebena became a suspect almost immediately, and his plot to kill his wife unraveled quickly, according to the details of police reports distilled into the criminal complaint charging him with her murder.

He left shell casings at the scene, including one from a rare type of 9mm ammunition fired by only a few models of handguns — and more ammunition of that type was found in his home the same day.

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According to the Milwaukee County Medical Examiner’s report, Jennifer Sebena was shot twice in the head from behind with the 9mm weapon and three times in the face with a .40-caliber weapon. Three .40-caliber shell casings were also found in the parking lot, and they were consistent with the type used by Wauwatosa police service weapons. Jennifer Sebena’s weapon was missing from the scene.

Police: Husband never asked how wife died

Benjamin Sebena called police within two hours after she was found dead at about 4:30 a.m. “to check on his wife’s well-being,” the complaint says, but when told she had been involved “in an accident,” he didn’t ask what had happened to her.

Sebena agreed to come to the Wauwatosa police station, arriving just before 7 a.m., where he was told that his wife had been killed. He never asked how she died. He drove a black Prius to the police station that morning — and a black Prius was seen in a number of video scenes recorded between Wauwatosa Village and the Sebenas’ Menomonee Falls home that morning.

Benjamin Sebena at first told police that he had been at home from 10 p.m. Dec. 23 until he was asked to come to the Wauwatosa police station at 6:30 a.m. Dec. 24 — about two hours after she was killed at Wauwatosa Fire Station 1. 

However, on Wednesday he admitted to police that he had been stalking his wife for days, and that he waited in hiding for several hours near the fire station for her to arrive to take a break at the station, the complaint said.

He told police he began to shoot her after she walked out of the station, and thought he saw her reach for her firearm. He said he took the gun from her holster and shot her in the face three or four times, the complaint said. 

"Benjamin Sebena stated that he wanted to make sure she was dead, so she wouldn’t suffer," according to the complaint.

Story of domestic violence unearthed

The complaint also said that on Dec. 6, Jennifer Sebena told another Wauwatosa police officer that she had been a victim of domestic violence and that Benjamin Sebena had put a gun to her head.

At a press conference Thursday afternoon, Wauwatosa Police Chief Barry Weber said he was unaware that Jennifer Sebena told another officer about such a threat, and that the first he and supervisors knew of it was when it came out during the investigation.

The criminal complaint did not indicate what the motive was in the shooting; however, in his initial interview with police on Monday, Benjamin Sebena "stated that he had been jealous of other men with regards to his wife."


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